
Recommended Reading Library
"I think books are like people, in the sense that they'll turn up in your life when you most need them."
-Emma Thompson
I LOVE to read, so I thought I'd share some of my favorite books here. Many of these have been helpful resources for me personally and professionally, and the others are just for fun! I update this page periodically as I read more material.
Happy Reading!

Life of the Beloved
Henri J.M. Nouwen
This is such a lovely read using the metaphor of communion in integrating purpose into suffering. Nouwen says we are chosen-blessed-and broken-to be given. This concept aligns with my belief that pain and suffering can be transformed into self-compassion and compassion for others.
Faith in Suffering

Boundaries
Henry Cloud and John Townsend
Boundaries by Cloud and Townsend is a hugely popular book, and for good reason. This book is a wonderful introduction to the importance of boundaries, how and when to set boundaries, biblical principles that support boundaries, what boundaries look like in different contexts, and more!
Educational Reads

Snow Flower And The Secret Fan
Lisa See
This was the first book I read from Lisa See (I have enjoyed every one of her books, so if you have a chance check them out!) This book is about nineteenth century China and details the practice of foot binding while taking you through history through the lens of two friends.
Fun and Leisure Reads

Man's Search For Meaning
Viktor Frankl
This book was written by Viktor Frankl who was a psychiatrist and Holocaust survivor. The first half of the book describes his experience at Auschwitz and other concentration camps. The second half of the book explores his theory Logotherapy. This book is an insightful and empowering read on how life has meaning even in the most miserable and atrocious circumstances. Please look for my post on my favorite quotes from this book!
Educational Reads

Gentle Whispers
Julie Gorman
This read is a 40 day devotional that a client gifted to me when we closed our work together, so I want to pay it forward and recommend it to you. This is my favorite devotional book I've read (so far). If you are looking for a good contextual-scripture-based-devo- look no further!
Faith in Suffering

Patterns of Infidelity and Their Treatment
Emily M. Brown
A book I would recommend to fellow clinicians. It is a great tool for discovering ways to serve clients who have experienced affairs. It also categorizes the different types of affairs with specific intervention recommendations for each type.
Educational Reads

Tear Soup
Pat Schwiebert and Chuck DeKlyen
Written and illustrated like a children's book, but is really applicable for all ages (I have even read this with adult clients). It is the most beautiful display of what grief and loss look like and includes helpful tips and resources on the ending pages.
Educational Reads

Little Women
Louisa May Alcott
A classic that is actually good (in my biased opinion). My favorite quote from the book is, "One of the sweet uses of adversity is the genuine satisfaction which comes from hearty work of head or hand; and to the inspiration of necessity, we owe half the wise, beautiful, and useful blessings of the world."
Fun and Leisure Reads

Codependent No More
Melody Beattie
Codependent No More by Melody Beattie is a fantastic book and relatable for many readers. The author speaks from personal experience and research on issues surrounding codependency, alcohol/substance abuse, self-sacrificing, roles in family of origin, and more. It is an empowering read on how to pursue healing for oneself. -Check out my post The Codependency Coaster for my favorite quotes from this book!
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